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Thursday, April 28, 2011

Abortion in Literature by Sarah Flint Erdreich


Guest blogger Sarah Erdreich brings us this fascinating look at six books that tussle with abortion in the rarest of the rare -- a pro-choice book review.

While a lot of novels revolve around unplanned pregnancy or include abortion as a subplot, finding fiction books that address abortion is a bit more of a challenge. The six discussed here — three young adult novels, three adult fiction — all have major plot points that revolve around the issue of abortion. Which means that it’s inevitable that some plot points of My Life as a Rhombus, Gingerbread, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, American Wife, The Cider House Rules, and Revolutionary Road will be spoiled -- so proceed accordingly.

Young Adult Literature

All three YA books — Rhombus, Gingerbread,and Wallflower — are set in a post-Roe society.

My Life As a Rhombus by Varian Johnson is the most in-depth of the three YA books in looking at both sides of the abortion issue. The protagonist has had an abortion early in high school, while a new friend of hers chose to continue with her pregnancy. Chronicling the experiences of these two teenagers made it possible for the author to explore the pros and cons of each option without seeming preachy, and also allowed the protagonist to grapple with her own conflicted emotions about her choice.

Gingerbread by Rachel Cohen took the breeziest approach to the subject, which is only appropriate given how breezy the book was overall. For much of the story, the abortion was secondary to the protagonist’s more immediate dramas with her new boyfriend, difficult mother, chaotic step-family, and the father she had only seen once in her life but who paid for her abortion. The plot was so frenetic and wide-ranging, not to mention eye-rollingly heavy on slang, that by the time the main character finally talks to her mother about the abortion, the conversation almost seems out of place.

My favorite of the three was definitely The Perks of Being A Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky, which I first read a decade ago. The abortion only takes up a few pages of the story, which follows a teenage boy named Charlie through a pivotal year. When Charlie’s sister gets pregnant, she asks him to accompany her to the clinic; while Charlie is uneasy with this responsibility, he is honored that his sister trusts him, and makes sure that he doesn’t let her down. The siblings’ matter-of-fact approach toward abortion is perhaps more remarkable given what the reader knows about their parents, who married young in response to an unplanned pregnancy. No direct correlation is drawn between their parents’ experience and the sister’s decision, and the references to what both parents had to sacrifice are subtle. But it is clear that sacrifices were made, whereas at the end of Wallflower, Charlie’s sister is preparing for her freshman year at Vassar.

Adult Fiction

Alice Blackwell, the woman at the heart of American Wife by Curtis Sittenfeld, also has few negative consequences after her 1963 abortion. After the procedure, Alice continues on with her education and career, eventually marrying a man whose political rise is as dizzying as it is unexpected, culminating in two terms as President. But after Alice ’s husband nominates an anti-choice woman to the Supreme Court, Alice finds that her long-ago abortion might become national news. The resulting brief, but intense, argument with her former doctor raises intriguing questions about what an individual’s responsibility is to herself and others, and whether Alice ’s public role obligates her to disclose a private decision.

The issue of personal responsibility plays a large role in The Cider House Rules by John Irving, a sprawling novel set in the first half of the 20th century. Dr. Wilbur Larch is driven to perform abortions out of a sense of personal responsibility, but his protégé, Homer Wells, is resolutely opposed to the practice. Larch attempts to respect Wells’ choice, but finally implores Wells to continue his work. “If abortions were legal, you could refuse – in fact, given your beliefs, you should refuse. But as long as they’re against the law, how can you refuse? How can you allow yourself a choice in the matter when there are so many women who haven’t the freedom to make the choice themselves? … You have to help them because you know how. Think about who’s going to help them if you refuse.” (See the trailer of the Cider House Rules film, here.)

April Wheeler, the unhappy wife in Revolutionary Road by Richard Yates, is one of those women that could have used Larch and Wells’ help. Of course, the 1950s housewife is so private that, after becoming unexpectedly pregnant too soon after her marriage, April seeks advice from a friend about self-aborting. Her husband, Frank, is appalled — less that she might have an abortion (“the idea itself, God knew, was more than a little attractive”) but that he feels left out of the decision-making process. When April becomes pregnant for a third time, she again considers abortion; and despite Frank’s vehement opposition, this time she uses a Good Housekeeping-approved rubber syringe, to tragic results. (See trailer of Revolutionary Road film here.)


Perhaps because books are able to explore an issue in greater depth than almost any other form of media, I felt more of a connection with the characters than with the protagonists of films or television shows that focus on the same issue. I was particularly heartened by the ways in which the YA books approached the subject. Each of the teenage girls was utterly realistic in their reasons for choosing abortion and how they reacted to that decision, and it’s refreshing to see that young adult literature encompasses this range of emotions and experiences. Because popular culture can be a very powerful tool for challenging and changing social mores, it seems particularly important for the future of abortion rights that younger readers are being exposed to a variety of thoughts and emotions about the issue, as well as reading about some of the many reasons that women choose abortion.

That said, my favorite of the six was Cider House, mainly thanks to the wonderful Wilbur Larch. But it’s not his common-sense wisdom that will stay with me. It’s the woman that came to Homer Wells half-dead from a botched abortion, that made him realize the necessity of his work: “He just kept looking and marveling at the young woman’s inflamed tissue; it looked hot enough to burn the world.”

About Sarah: When she's not writing, Sarah volunteers at her local animal shelter and reads way too much. Also see Abortion in Music by Sarah.

Pictured above: Cover,from Lisa A. Tallman's Study Guide for The Cider House Rules by John Irving.

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Thursday, April 21, 2011

Talk About Sex? Do It With A Movie!

The DC-based policy organization, Advocates for Youth, teamed up with filmmaker James Houston to produce a grand new video about sex, "Let's Talk About Sex," AND it focuses on teens. There are catchy reminders like a giant condom dropped on top of the Washington Monument (yes, it's a phallic symbol) with the words "Every day 10,000 teens catch an STD."

Since its first launch in early April and aired on TLC, the filmmakers have been putting up a series of clips, interviews and outtakes on the Internet, like this one with Ashley and her friend talking about their "first" experience with a virginity pledge ("Kids didn’t take it seriously. There were people made the pledge and that same night went and had sex."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cPErjh2-Is8&feature=mfu_in_order&list=UL


Director Houston, an Australian fashion photographer, sees America in denial in talking about sex, and the film aims to pierce some of that denial. As the film's marketing says, Houston "tries to make sense of our contradicting attitudes about sex and sexuality by talking to the people they most affect: teens and their families."

The failure of the American attitude, says Houston, is that it pretends teens aren't having sex. But he shows that they are, and that they need to talk about it.

Other great clips are online:

The director himself talking about sexual imagery in advertising and on a set creating those images because, he says, sex sells, here.

A graphic comparison between American teens and European teens, who all have sex at the same rates but with very different results, here.

The condom drop on the Washington Monument, here.

A differing look at a Netherlands teen and his parents, here.

American college kids, men, talking about sex, here.

Interview with Dr. John Santelli about teen health trends, here.

A short explanation of the film with the director, Dr. Santelli and participant, Ashley, here.

And an enticing overview trailer, here.

Let's Talk About Sex has also created an excellent website with Fast Facts, Take Action, and Resources for Parents, Youth and Faith Communities. The DVD is also available for purchase at Docudrama Films.

Creative personnel attached to the film include: Directed by James Houston and produced by Neal Weisman, the film was shot by Claudia Raschke- Robinson (Mad Hot Ballroom) and edited by Richard Hankin (Capturing The Friedmans). Co-producer is Amy Hobby (Secretary) and Tim Duffy, music is by J Ralph (The Cove, Man On Wire)/The Rumor Mill. Executive Producer is Netscape founder Jim Clark (The Cove).

Producing partner Advocates for Youth describes itself as: the only organization that works both in the United States and in developing countries with a sole focus on adolescent reproductive and sexual health. and, it says, "Advocates for Youth envisions a society that views sexuality as normal and healthy and treats young people as a valuable resource. The core values of Rights. Respect. Responsibility.® (3Rs)."

Addendum: Not everyone in the prochoice community was enthralled with 'Let's Talk About Sex.' Here's Heather Corinna's very intelligent critique on RH Reality Check.

Posted by Cindy Cooper
Clip from YouTube, see YouTube site LTAS for uploads.

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Saturday, April 09, 2011

Abortion in Music from Sarah Erdreich & More


Abortion in music? Here's what Sarah Erdreich dug up for her blog Generation Roe, and published on Feminists for Choice.

Google “abortion music” and one of the first hits will be to the Wikipedia page “List of Songs About Abortion.” And man, is it extensive – much more so than I was expecting. I hadn’t heard – or heard of – a lot of the songs listed; my tastes run towards rock and alternative, and Christian pop was pretty heavily represented on the list. So, no big surprise there. What did surprise me, however, was seeing songs that I knew pretty well but never made the connection that they involved abortion.

For instance, “The Freshmen” by the Verve Pipe. That song was huge when I was in college. Like, inescapable to the point that I didn’t even like it that much, yet I recognized it instantly. I thought it was about a bad breakup, but as the band’s lead vocalist Brian Vander Ark explained in an interview, “…I used a dramatic license to have the girl commit suicide when she is actually still alive and well. But, for the most part, yeah. She had the abortion and that’s about the whole story.” So I went back and read the lyrics – and discovered that the line I always heard as “stomp on baby’s breath and a shoe full of rice,” which I interpreted as failed dreams of marriage, was actually “Stop a baby’s breath and a shoe full of rice.” Hunh.


Then there’s “Slide” by the Goo Goo Dolls, which I’ve listened to far too many times and still can’t tell if it’s pro- or anti-choice. After all, the line “Do you love the life you killed” sounds pretty harsh, but the following lyrics, about the girl being disowned by her angry parents and the narrator recognizing that he can’t change what happened, coupled with the overall sense that the narrator and the girl really love each other (“What you feel is what you are/And what you are is beautiful”) hint at a more complicated situation.

I’ve long known that “Brick” by Ben Folds Five is about abortion, but I was still interested to read this interview that Folds did with Paste magazine, that includes some background on the song. “Folds wrote the song about taking his high-school girlfriend to get an abortion, and on a live CD released in 2002 capped off a rehashing of its back story by noting, “It was a very sad thing, but I didn’t really want to write the song from any kind of political standpoint or make a statement. I just wanted to reflect on what it feels like.”

Marilyn Manson was making a statement with his song “Get Your Gunn,” as he explains in this 1999 article he wrote for Rolling Stone. The title is spelled with two n’s because the song was a reaction to the murder of Dr. David Gunn, who was killed in Florida by pro-life activists while I was living there. That was the ultimate hypocrisy I witnessed growing up: that these people killed someone in the name of being “pro-life.”

Cyndi Lauper’s song “Sally’s Pigeons” also deals with abortion and death. The lyrics tell the story of the narrator’s friend, who becomes pregnant and seeks an illegal abortion: “She left one night with just a nod/was lost from some back alley job.”

Other artists on the list that caught my eye include Kid Rock, whose song “Abortion” drew the praise of the anti-choice Rock for Life. My opinions on the song are mixed; after all, I’m automatically going to dislike anything that Rock for Life supports, but it is interesting to hear a male perspective on abortion.

And then there’s Tammy Lynn Starlite and her song “God Has Lodged a Tenant in My Uterus.” Starlite is the creation of singer/actress Tammy Lang, who was inspired to develop the character as a reaction to the mid-90s resurgence of conservative Republicanism. “Uterus” is a satirical song, and a response to Loretta Lynn’s “One’s on the Way.” Unfortunately, I couldn’t find any lyrics to “Uterus,” but this Salon profile does a brilliant job of setting up the song.

I was also interested to read about singer Peggy Seeger’s song “The Judge’s Chair.” The song was written for NARAL, but as Seeger recounts, “They didn’t like [it] at all. It’s not what they wanted. On the other hand, it stops people in their tracks. And it stops me in my tracks when I sing it. What they wanted was an anthem that everybody could join in and sing on.” The song is pretty amazing, and I think this was definitely NARAL’s loss.

And of course, no discussion about abortion in music would be complete without including Ani DiFranco. In an interview last year, DiFranco discussed her views on abortion. “Women have a specific experience in society that is not specifically addressed in the law of our land. I think the state-by-state, case-by-case quibbling over things like abortion is very much used as a tool to divide people. … In my new songs I’m trying to find a way to sing the word patriarchy, to sing the word abortion. For me, they are as important as love and skies and rain and angels … the things you hear every day, all day long.”

DiFranco’s “Hello Birmingham,” about the murder of Dr. Barnett Slepian, is one of the most powerful songs about abortion – and choice and love and politics and pain – ever written. I listened to it over and over when writing Generation Roe – sometimes I couldn’t even start working until I’d had a listen. It’s almost impossible to pick out a favorite verse, but the one that always sticks in my mind is this: “a bullet came to visit a doctor/in his one safe place/a bullet insuring the right to life/whizzed past his kid and his wife/and knocked his glasses/right off of his face.”

As powerful as “Hello Birmingham” is, DiFranco’s “Lost Woman Song” is equally compelling. I have to confess that it took me a while to realize that it was about abortion; for a long time I thought it was just a beautiful song. And it is – and really, I think that the best songs that address abortion, either pro-choice or anti, are the ones that make you think about what you’re hearing. It’s more difficult to address politics in a three-minute song than in a two-hour film or even one-hour TV show – not just are you dealing with a very short amount of time to tell your story, you often don’t have the benefit of a lot of context for that story or those words. I know there are a lot of songs on that Wikipedia list, and beyond, that are just as moving or thought-provoking or passionate as the ones I’ve discussed here. ... But for now, let me leave you with my favorite words from “Lost Woman Song.”

mine was a relatively easy tragedy
now the profile of our country
looks a little less hard nosed
but that picket line persisted
and that clinic’s since been closed
they keep pounding their fists on reality
hoping it will break
but i don’t think there’s a one of us
leads a life free of mistakes


About Sarah: When she's not writing, Sarah volunteers at her local animal shelter and reads way too much.

A Post Script:
On Feminists for Choice comments, readers have suggested a few other songs: La Femme Fetal by Digable Planets; Oasis by Amanda Palmer; Breathe by Anna Nalick, and Rapid City, South Dakota by Kinky Friedman. And here on "Up the Creativity," we've posted about music, too, especially oldies but goldies, such as: (very favorite) Every Sperm Does Not Deserve a Name and Caryl Towner's rally song, We Won't Go Back, ballads of Sandy Rapp on Dr. Wicklund and Bill Baird, and a memorial nod to Dr. Tiller in Kindness, Courtesy, Justice, Love, Respect. Like Sarah, we're always hoping for more!

Posted by Cindy Cooper
Pictured above: Album cover, Ani DiFranco, Righteousbabe.com

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Sunday, April 03, 2011

Abortion in music? Here's an excerpt of what Sarah Erdreich dug up for her blog Generation Roe, and published on Feminists for Choice.

Google “abortion music” and one of the first hits will be to the Wikipedia page “List of Songs About Abortion.” And man, is it extensive – much more so than I was expecting. I hadn’t heard – or heard of – a lot of the songs listed; my tastes run towards rock and alternative, and Christian pop was pretty heavily represented on the list. So, no big surprise there. What did surprise me, however, was seeing songs that I knew pretty well but never made the connection that they involved abortion.

For instance, “The Freshmen” by the Verve Pipe. That song was huge when I was in college. Like, inescapable to the point that I didn’t even like it that much, yet I recognized it instantly. I thought it was about a bad breakup, but as the band’s lead vocalist Brian Vander Ark explained in an interview, “…I used a dramatic license to have the girl commit suicide when she is actually still alive and well. But, for the most part, yeah. She had the abortion and that’s about the whole story.” So I went back and read the lyrics – and discovered that the line I always heard as “stomp on baby’s breath and a shoe full of rice,” which I interpreted as failed dreams of marriage, was actually “Stop a baby’s breath and a shoe full of rice.” Hunh.


Then there’s “Slide” by the Goo Goo Dolls, which I’ve listened to far too many times and still can’t tell if it’s pro- or anti-choice. After all, the line “Do you love the life you killed” sounds pretty harsh, but the following lyrics, about the girl being disowned by her angry parents and the narrator recognizing that he can’t change what happened, coupled with the overall sense that the narrator and the girl really love each other (“What you feel is what you are/And what you are is beautiful”) hint at a more complicated situation.

I’ve long known that “Brick” by Ben Folds Five is about abortion, but I was still interested to read this interview that Folds did with Paste magazine, that includes some background on the song. “Folds wrote the song about taking his high-school girlfriend to get an abortion, and on a live CD released in 2002 capped off a rehashing of its back story by noting, “It was a very sad thing, but I didn’t really want to write the song from any kind of political standpoint or make a statement. I just wanted to reflect on what it feels like.”

Marilyn Manson was making a statement with his song “Get Your Gunn,” as he explains in this 1999 article he wrote for Rolling Stone. The title is spelled with two n’s because the song was a reaction to the murder of Dr. David Gunn, who was killed in Florida by pro-life activists while I was living there. That was the ultimate hypocrisy I witnessed growing up: that these people killed someone in the name of being “pro-life.”

Cyndi Lauper’s song “Sally’s Pigeons” also deals with abortion and death. The lyrics tell the story of the narrator’s friend, who becomes pregnant and seeks an illegal abortion: “She left one night with just a nod/was lost from some back alley job.”

Other artists on the list that caught my eye include Kid Rock, whose song “Abortion” drew the praise of the anti-choice Rock for Life. My opinions on the song are mixed; after all, I’m automatically going to dislike anything that Rock for Life supports, but it is interesting to hear a male perspective on abortion.

And then there’s Tammy Lynn Starlite and her song “God Has Lodged a Tenant in My Uterus.” Starlite is the creation of singer/actress Tammy Lang, who was inspired to develop the character as a reaction to the mid-90s resurgence of conservative Republicanism. “Uterus” is a satirical song, and a response to Loretta Lynn’s “One’s on the Way.” Unfortunately, I couldn’t find any lyrics to “Uterus,” but this Salon profile does a brilliant job of setting up the song.

I was also interested to read about singer Peggy Seeger’s song “The Judge’s Chair.” The song was written for NARAL, but as Seeger recounts, “They didn’t like [it] at all. It’s not what they wanted. On the other hand, it stops people in their tracks. And it stops me in my tracks when I sing it. What they wanted was an anthem that everybody could join in and sing on.” The song is pretty amazing, and I think this was definitely NARAL’s loss.

And of course, no discussion about abortion in music would be complete without including Ani DiFranco. In an interview last year, DiFranco discussed her views on abortion. “Women have a specific experience in society that is not specifically addressed in the law of our land. I think the state-by-state, case-by-case quibbling over things like abortion is very much used as a tool to divide people. … In my new songs I’m trying to find a way to sing the word patriarchy, to sing the word abortion. For me, they are as important as love and skies and rain and angels … the things you hear every day, all day long.”

DiFranco’s “Hello Birmingham,” about the murder of Dr. Barnett Slepian, is one of the most powerful songs about abortion – and choice and love and politics and pain – ever written. I listened to it over and over when writing Generation Roe – sometimes I couldn’t even start working until I’d had a listen. It’s almost impossible to pick out a favorite verse, but the one that always sticks in my mind is this: “a bullet came to visit a doctor/in his one safe place/a bullet insuring the right to life/whizzed past his kid and his wife/and knocked his glasses/right off of his face.”

As powerful as “Hello Birmingham” is, DiFranco’s “Lost Woman Song” is equally compelling. I have to confess that it took me a while to realize that it was about abortion; for a long time I thought it was just a beautiful song. And it is – and really, I think that the best songs that address abortion, either pro-choice or anti, are the ones that make you think about what you’re hearing. It’s more difficult to address politics in a three-minute song than in a two-hour film or even one-hour TV show – not just are you dealing with a very short amount of time to tell your story, you often don’t have the benefit of a lot of context for that story or those words. I know there are a lot of songs on that Wikipedia list, and beyond, that are just as moving or thought-provoking or passionate as the ones I’ve discussed here. ... But for now, let me leave you with my favorite words from “Lost Woman Song.”

mine was a relatively easy tragedy
now the profile of our country
looks a little less hard nosed
but that picket line persisted
and that clinic’s since been closed
they keep pounding their fists on reality
hoping it will break
but i don’t think there’s a one of us
leads a life free of mistakes


About Sarah: When she's not writing, Sarah volunteers at her local animal shelter and reads way too much.